This past Thursday, I had the opportunity to attend the annual I AM MPLS event in NE Minneapolis. Shout-out Vanessa McDuffie (@nessa_bess on IG) for hooking me up with a free ticket. I haven't been to an event like this in while. It was nice to see the Twin Cities creative community dressed to the nines. I came to this event alone, but I am never worried about feeling out of place. Minneapolis is a city where its easy to find like minded people. I always meet really cool and nice people at events like these.
Okay, so obviously I'm not three years old -- my blog is. According to the email notification I got from Tumblr. Yup, thats right. My roots are in Tumblr (they still are). Tumblr was a great platform for me to dip my toes in the water, but honestly back then I wasn't trying to become a style blogger. Back then, I just needed a blog dedicated to the awesome fashion content I come across on Tumblr. I had my personal Tumblr, but that had a wider variety of content on it. If we were to get real technical, then this blog is less than a year old. However, it counts to me because "debutante" started three years ago and no one can tell me different.
Earlier this month, I went back to Milwaukee to attend a networking event at my alma mater and to visit some friends. While I was there I stayed with my good friend Emily. Although the networking event was a bust in my opinion (Emily agrees), but I still had fun that weekend. I got to see some amigas, explore Chicago and have a photoshoot with some buddies.
I call this look fucci (fake + gucci), because my green and red sweater looks like a knock off. Although, it could be just gucci-inspired.. hell, it could be Christmas inspired we'll never know. I'm also still obsessed with bucket hats and newly obsessed with faux fur slippers (inspired by Fenty x PUMA).
Not really sure when I became a beret kind of gal, but I dived right into this trend. To be fair, I think berets have always interested me, I was just reluctant to wear one because literally no one else was. Now I have come across a handful of articles dedicated to berets and dozens of pictures featuring them. A while back I used to care what people thought of my outfits. I used to make sure they weren't too "out there", which may be a surprise to people who have known me long enough. Some of my past looks have been gaudy and still looked "out there". Guess I was never really good at blending in in the first place. Now, I really don't care what other people think. If you have seen me in my "comfy" jeans one of your first thoughts is probably "wow this girl really doesn't care what other people think". I guess that isn't such a great example because I don't always wear those jeans for aesthetic reasons....
Its been a while since I have shot with Ken and Justin. It was nice to catch up and work with them again. It has been a minute. It was also just nice to be in Milwaukee again. I can't decide if I miss the city. I think I just miss the people I knew and the vibe of the metro area. Milwaukee (and the Marquette Bubble) sometimes get a bad rep, but its not as bad as it looks from the outside.
On a semi-unrelated note, we talked about Keith Ape's "잊지마" (It G Ma/Don't Forget). It was funny to expose other people to Korean music. I felt like I was a disciple spreading the joy of Korean music haha. In reality, I wouldn't have brought up the song if it wasn't for the video below. It's pretty great.
Minnesota has only produced a handful of Project Runway contestants, three to be exact. The Land of Lakes hasn't seen a designer on the reality show since Chris Straub -- seven seasons ago. Samantha Rei is here to change that, the designer has been active in the Twin Cities fashion scene for almost two decades. Since graduating from Perpich Center for Arts Education, Samantha Rei became a catalyst for Lolita style in the US, directed fashion shows and competed on the hit design show, Project Runway. Since appearing on the show Samantha Rei has been getting her girlboss on working collaborations and her new collection. It's amazing to think she almost didn't audition, we're glad she was nudged to give it one more go.
You have said fashion shows should be treated like commercials versus concerts. Why do you say that? How can we move in the right direction to achieve that?
At least in the Twin Cities, most fashion show patrons don't treat fashions shows as a business showing their new wares, which is what they are. The point of a fashion show is to present a new collection to buyers and potential customers. While they are entertaining spectacles, so are TV commercials and movie trailers. But the point of them is to a sell goods. Much of our community go to shows for fun and never intend to buy from the creators. The best way to support local is to actually buy local products. I see a lot of the same people at shows season after season, but I don't see them wearing indie designs. Contribute to the community in meaningful ways by shopping small and supporting local. Just know, in most cases, ticket sales don't go to the designers so unless you purchase from them, they likely aren't making any money. We have to keep our lights on like everyone else.
My childhood friend/bff gave me this t-shirt in 2013. To be honest, its still in 'like-new' condition since I haven't worn it much these past 4 years. And yes, it is a One Direction tee. I feel no shame wearing it. We loved One Direction when they were together, still love them now (as a group, the only solo artist I support out of the five is Harry Styles). Band t-shirts are in, or more accurately t-shirts in general. Retailers such as Forever 21 have a large selection of t-shirts ranging from fake concert events to nostalgia inducing designs. For those with a more expensive taste in clothes, Gucci tees have been popping up everywhere. Trendsetters such as Ashley Madekewe and @coco_pinkprincess can be seen dressed in Gucci tees on their Instagrams.
The fact that I was able to squeeze into a small denim skirt from American Apparel is beyond me. And you know that thing was snug because American Apparel likes to do this thing where their a sizes are seemly smaller than standard.
Before our Senior year came to a close I wanted to have a photoshoot to commemorate our friendship and show the power of black excellence. Although this is not a full representation of the Senior black female population at Marquette University, it is a snippet of it. When I was coordinating and directing the photoshoot, I took my inspiration from Solange's wedding picture. I just thought her group wedding images oozed black girl magic. I needed to get in on the action. So after weeks of wrangling participants, looking for shoot venues and finding a photographer the fruits of my labor finally came.
I want to coordinate more photoshoots in the future so I will be actively working on that. My professional goals always change, but I think this one will stick. Way back when I wanted to be a pediatrician. Ha! Now I just want to be doing something fashion related. A few years ago that meant being a designer, now I want to be a stylist/blogger/Art Director. Whatever 神様 has planned for me, I am ready to explore it.